There are a lot of women out there and it’s hard to choose which one is a keeper and which one you should throw back into to the sea.
Relationships with women are a tricky thing. We have all been there — you start dating someone and things are going great. You start thinking that maybe it might finally be time for you to settle down, maybe this person is actually the one that you have been waiting for your whole life. Maybe you should finally take the plunge and ask her to marry you.
Or maybe you should dump her. That is the thing — which way should you go with it? Almost every woman has some qualities that make her marriage material, but also almost every woman has qualities that might make you want to run for the hills.
1.She’s A Slob
This might sound kind of harsh, but we aren’t judging here, just being honest. If you marry a woman who is a total slob, you’re going to be living with a total slob the rest of your life. This means that you are not only going to be in the position of picking up after yourself, you are going to be in the position of picking up after her too. I have lived with slobs before, both male and female, and let me tell you, it’s not fun at all. Even if the woman you are dating has everything else down pat, if she is a complete slob, then you are going to have to dump her, or at the least just keep dating her until something better comes along. This is marriage that we are talking about after all. No slobs allowed.
2.She Once Cheated on you
This probably could go without saying, but it needs to be said anyway. If she cheats, then she is not marriage material at all. There really are two types of people out there, those who cheat and those who don’t. If a woman doesn’t cheat, then she probably never will, and if she does cheat, then she probably will do so again, even if she ends up taking a few years off in between. You might really be into her and you might want to forgive her if she cheats, or maybe it’s that you know that she has cheated on someone else in the past in a previous relationship. Either way don’t marry her if she cheats or has cheated. You can go out with her and have fun, but don’t marry her.
3.She parties too much
This one is a tough one because I know for sure how fun it is to hang out with a woman who likes to party. It’s a blast, and who wouldn’t want to be with a hot woman that likes to party all night? While it’s fun for awhile, in the long run, that kind of thing just isn’t fun at all. Who wants to marry someone that has a drinking problem and isn’t responsible? I suppose it’s fine if she is independently wealthy, but even then, there are some serious issues associated with women who like to party all the time. Do you really want to marry someone you have to carry to bed and hold her hair while she pukes every weekend? You don’t have to answer that question because I can answer it for you. You definitely don’t want to marry someone like that.
4.She Makes You Feel Guilty About Having Fun
Now having fun doesn’t mean that you are doing anything awful, it really just means doing things that you enjoy. If you are with a woman who likes to make you feel that you shouldn’t be doing things that are fun for you, then you might as well pull the plug on the relationship right now. Why would you want to be with someone who constantly puts you down and tries to keep you from the things that you enjoy? And if a woman is like this when you are dating her, just imagine how she’ll be down the road when you end up marrying her? You guessed it, she will be about 20 times worse than she is now, no doubt about it.
5.She nags you
While you do want to be a woman who looks out for you, that doesn’t mean that you want to be with someone who is a nag. There is a huge difference there. One is a kind woman who worries about you, while the other is an awful shrew who just won’t leave you alone and who you could never make happy no matter how hard you try. If you notice that you are with a woman that nags, there is really only just one thing to do, and that’s get away from her as soon as possible. You will never be happy having a nag for a wife. If you ask me how I know that, I can tell you very easily. It’s because no one is ever happy having a nag for a wife. Dump her as soon as you can.