No man dumps a lady at the blink of an eye; for him to dump you or want to dump you then he must have conceived it in his mind, and thought about executing it.
A lot of the times, ladies don’t see it coming when their man wants to dump them — but, if you pay attention closely then you would notice the changes in his behaviour and the signs from his body language that he is thinking about leaving you.
These seven tips below would reveal a lot:
1. HIS BODY LANGUAGE
Body language always reveals a lot; the body language when a man is in love and when he’s out of it are totally different, and this should give you a clue. How does he react during a conversation? Does he respond totally well or seem like he’s in another world? How does he act when he’s with you? Has he stopped being caring and has become more nonchalant? The answers to these questions would reveal a lot.
2. FLIRTS WITHOUT REALLY MINDING YOUR PRESENCE
When your man has the effrontery to flirt without minding that you are aware of it then that man of yours is ready to move to another woman anytime soon. If he also flirts on the phone with other women when with you, it’s obvious he’s thinking about leaving you soon.
3. FLIMSY EXCUSES
Lies, flimsy excuses and nonchalance are part of the things men do when they have lost interest in their women. When his excuses come thick and fast and are obviously false and stupid then it’s obvious he doesn’t value the relationship again, and him leaving you wouldn’t even be news.
4. HARDLY WANTS TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU
When a man is in love, he would want to spend a bulk of his time with his lady; but once he loses interest and considers leaving that woman, he would have little or no desire to be with her anymore. How much time he spends or wants to spend with you is a very important indicator.
5. BECOMES CLUMSY AND LESS AFFECTIONATE
Once clumsiness enters the picture then you should be wary. Affection and passion are huge indicators that a relationship is still on track, but it has to come from both partners; once your man sees no need to be affectionate then that’s a sign that your man has lost interest in the relationship and could have harboured thoughts of dumping you.
6. HARDLY APPRECIATES YOU NO MATTER WHAT
This is really the height of it all. When a man has lost interest and wants to leave, giving him a sky scraper may not change his mind even. If he sees no good in anything you do for him, no matter what you do then you should know that leaving the relationship is definitely on his cards.
7. HE BECOMES UNNECESSARILY BUSY
I still believe that you can’t be too busy for someone you deeply care about. When his communication level becomes too haphazard and rarely does have your time then you should be wary of an impending breakup anytime soon. If he still cares about the relationship, he would find time for you even with his busy nature.
No man dumps a lady just all of a sudden — he thinks about it first, acts towards it and then drops the shell. If you are observant enough, you would notice that your man is thinking of doing the dreadful.